i'm back.....finally

ok, so now i'm getting shit for not posting. actually, i'm giving myself grief for not posting. i have been a busy fool this past month. then come to find out i can't post from my laptop anymore because the websense has blocked this site. so when i'm ready to post i can't figure out how to crack the system, and when i get home i'm too damn tired to post. but i thought i'd get caught up to today and then keep it going from there.

i'll try to whip through the past month with just the good tidbits.

-went home for christmas, had a so so time. hard to be in the rain for 12 days and not be dying to get back to sunny california. although i did have some amazing moments while i was home. finally came out to some very dear friends, one being the girl i would've married had it not been for the fact that we both knew i was gay. love her dearly and we had some really good heart to hearts while i was home. found out my buddy mitch (who is straight and fine as hell) is having a baby with his girlfriend who i got to meet and absolutely love. hung out with my aunt and got to see her new house, very happy for her. went and sang karaoke with several friends and had a blast. met michael rose, about a hundred fucking times in 12 days. scram michael rose, scram. used the word scram way too many times and continue to use it. but i just love it. had a great time roadtripping with tricia. her parents are amazing and the most gratious hosts. stayed with my dear friend kelly and had some great fun while i was home. thanks kelly for the hospitality, you rock. had a grown up new years eve. went to a late dinner with tricia, and tina, at the hottest spot in town, roux. which just happens to be owned by my friends t.j. and dwayne. amazing food, wine, and atmosphere. here's to 2006.

-back in town and have lots to report on. the boxer meetup group i organize has grown tremendously in the 3 months since i took over the reigns. we're up to like 25 people now and the dogs just love it. the doggy day care crush is officially over. he just wants to be friends, and it's probably best. he has some issues that i'm not ready to deal with. met a really cute smart guy at i-candy a couple of weeks ago. i-candy is the bar from the reality show on the logo channel the new gay tv station. anyway, he spotted me, we made eye contact, and then it was on. long story short, he needed a ride home and i was very kind to offer him more than one ride. good times, good times. i joined a gay softball league and i'm very excited to start playing again. we play on sundays which is awesome and we travel to play in tournaments all over the country. more to come on the team, very funny shit here. work has been great, very busy but i'm loving it. went out on first date with the cute i-candy guy. took him to a great new sushi restaurant called geisha house in hollywood. absolutely amazing. went back to his place and had another round of fun. can't wait for the next round. chatting with a few other gentlemen folks and keeping the options open though. i think i-candy guy is just some fun for now, we'll see. after a dry spell i'm having a great time and can't wait until the next time. and can i just say that i'd forgotten how many muscles get sore after a night of play time. i need to take my skinny ass to the gym so it's not such a big deal. got to hang out with the gang this past saturday night and had a blast. ducats and jt joined us which was a great surprise. had a lot of fun at the straight bar and although i didn't get to meet anyone that night, i was content with just hangin' with the crew and drinking boddington's. my favorite! got suckered into cooking breakfast for the crew at tony and damon's house. how the hell do you get invited to someones house for breakfast and then end up getting suckered into being the cook. well it happened. the breakfast was great, but i was hung over and not in the mood. i sucked it up though. good times, good times.

that wasn't so bad, and i got to dish pretty quickly. see ya tomorrow.