ok, so i promised myself that i would try and post at least something everyday or every other day. and then my company put the lowjack on our system so i can't access my blog from work. probably a good thing but damn it makes things extremely difficult. i'm will have to figure this out somehow. so i'm going to catch myself up again and see what i can do. i do enjoy keeping this journal but i've got to figure out a way to keep it up.
- dating -
boy what a task. had a breakfast date with someone i had been chatting with online. i was kind of excited and thought he was as well. we had been chattin via email and phone and had had some pretty good conversations. things were light but always funny and interesting. he's a drama teacher which i thought was pretty cool. he had some inner city school kids that lended some down right hysterical stories that he recited. i love a good ghetto story. anyway, we meet at the restaurant and the first thing i notice is that he has amazing posture. not that i don't, well not always but his was seriously erect. get your mind out of the gutter. anyway, i'm chatting up a storm and he's sort of conversing but i kind of get the feeling he's not really feeling it. so we finish, i tell him i'll call him and head on my way. after thinking about it i decide to send him a little email thanking him for the breakfast (i paid), and that it was really nice meeting him and that i'd like to see him again, but that for some reason i didn't feel him feeling my vibe. so i'm not surprised when i get his response that although he thought i was nice, he didn't really feel the spark, but that he wanted to remain friends. great, just what i need is another friend. don't get me wrong, i love my friends, but honestly, i'm not looking for anymore friends right now. scram drama teacher.
so last weekend before last my friend pedja came into town from atlanta on business. i was very excited to see him because i've really been missing my friends in atlanta and this was the first one i've seen since i moved to LA last July. so friday night we meet in Venice, along with a few of his LA friends and my buddy fava. all nice guys. we head to Roosterfish, which i have to say was surprisingly fun. the last time i was there it just wasn't my scene but there were some extremely hot guys in there this night. but, we decided to head out to WEHO and show pedja the sights. he had never been to WEHO before. we headed to i-candy and had a few drinks. i met a guy who seemed to be picking up on pedja (not his type) but i ended up getting his card. more to come on this one. we left i-candy for a night cap at the abbey. pedja ended up meeting this hottie and things started clearing out so we all headed home, alone. pedja met the guy the next day for lunch but couldn't get him to shut up so that was over before it started.
satuday night i had my new softball team kick off party. love the guys, this is going to be fun. we ended up going off to a bar called fuel in the valley (Noho). let me say right now, i can't stand the valley and here's why. we're having a good time and my phone rings. it's mr. i-candy, the first one, the all nighter, sushi dinner guy. so we chat a minute and i ask if he wants company. sure he says. so i tell him i'll be there in a half hour. now this is why i hate the valley. my ass got thoroughly lost and it took me and hour and a half to get to my booty call. not only did i get cursed out but my ass was seriously lost. i don't know what happened but i missed something somewhere and i wasn't drunk, i swear. we ended up having a good time anyway to say the least. damn is that boy fun!!! it is what it is but i'm enjoying it for the time being.
Monday, February 13, 2006
Monday, January 23, 2006
i'm back.....finally
ok, so now i'm getting shit for not posting. actually, i'm giving myself grief for not posting. i have been a busy fool this past month. then come to find out i can't post from my laptop anymore because the websense has blocked this site. so when i'm ready to post i can't figure out how to crack the system, and when i get home i'm too damn tired to post. but i thought i'd get caught up to today and then keep it going from there.
i'll try to whip through the past month with just the good tidbits.
-went home for christmas, had a so so time. hard to be in the rain for 12 days and not be dying to get back to sunny california. although i did have some amazing moments while i was home. finally came out to some very dear friends, one being the girl i would've married had it not been for the fact that we both knew i was gay. love her dearly and we had some really good heart to hearts while i was home. found out my buddy mitch (who is straight and fine as hell) is having a baby with his girlfriend who i got to meet and absolutely love. hung out with my aunt and got to see her new house, very happy for her. went and sang karaoke with several friends and had a blast. met michael rose, about a hundred fucking times in 12 days. scram michael rose, scram. used the word scram way too many times and continue to use it. but i just love it. had a great time roadtripping with tricia. her parents are amazing and the most gratious hosts. stayed with my dear friend kelly and had some great fun while i was home. thanks kelly for the hospitality, you rock. had a grown up new years eve. went to a late dinner with tricia, and tina, at the hottest spot in town, roux. which just happens to be owned by my friends t.j. and dwayne. amazing food, wine, and atmosphere. here's to 2006.
-back in town and have lots to report on. the boxer meetup group i organize has grown tremendously in the 3 months since i took over the reigns. we're up to like 25 people now and the dogs just love it. the doggy day care crush is officially over. he just wants to be friends, and it's probably best. he has some issues that i'm not ready to deal with. met a really cute smart guy at i-candy a couple of weeks ago. i-candy is the bar from the reality show on the logo channel the new gay tv station. anyway, he spotted me, we made eye contact, and then it was on. long story short, he needed a ride home and i was very kind to offer him more than one ride. good times, good times. i joined a gay softball league and i'm very excited to start playing again. we play on sundays which is awesome and we travel to play in tournaments all over the country. more to come on the team, very funny shit here. work has been great, very busy but i'm loving it. went out on first date with the cute i-candy guy. took him to a great new sushi restaurant called geisha house in hollywood. absolutely amazing. went back to his place and had another round of fun. can't wait for the next round. chatting with a few other gentlemen folks and keeping the options open though. i think i-candy guy is just some fun for now, we'll see. after a dry spell i'm having a great time and can't wait until the next time. and can i just say that i'd forgotten how many muscles get sore after a night of play time. i need to take my skinny ass to the gym so it's not such a big deal. got to hang out with the gang this past saturday night and had a blast. ducats and jt joined us which was a great surprise. had a lot of fun at the straight bar and although i didn't get to meet anyone that night, i was content with just hangin' with the crew and drinking boddington's. my favorite! got suckered into cooking breakfast for the crew at tony and damon's house. how the hell do you get invited to someones house for breakfast and then end up getting suckered into being the cook. well it happened. the breakfast was great, but i was hung over and not in the mood. i sucked it up though. good times, good times.
that wasn't so bad, and i got to dish pretty quickly. see ya tomorrow.
i'll try to whip through the past month with just the good tidbits.
-went home for christmas, had a so so time. hard to be in the rain for 12 days and not be dying to get back to sunny california. although i did have some amazing moments while i was home. finally came out to some very dear friends, one being the girl i would've married had it not been for the fact that we both knew i was gay. love her dearly and we had some really good heart to hearts while i was home. found out my buddy mitch (who is straight and fine as hell) is having a baby with his girlfriend who i got to meet and absolutely love. hung out with my aunt and got to see her new house, very happy for her. went and sang karaoke with several friends and had a blast. met michael rose, about a hundred fucking times in 12 days. scram michael rose, scram. used the word scram way too many times and continue to use it. but i just love it. had a great time roadtripping with tricia. her parents are amazing and the most gratious hosts. stayed with my dear friend kelly and had some great fun while i was home. thanks kelly for the hospitality, you rock. had a grown up new years eve. went to a late dinner with tricia, and tina, at the hottest spot in town, roux. which just happens to be owned by my friends t.j. and dwayne. amazing food, wine, and atmosphere. here's to 2006.
-back in town and have lots to report on. the boxer meetup group i organize has grown tremendously in the 3 months since i took over the reigns. we're up to like 25 people now and the dogs just love it. the doggy day care crush is officially over. he just wants to be friends, and it's probably best. he has some issues that i'm not ready to deal with. met a really cute smart guy at i-candy a couple of weeks ago. i-candy is the bar from the reality show on the logo channel the new gay tv station. anyway, he spotted me, we made eye contact, and then it was on. long story short, he needed a ride home and i was very kind to offer him more than one ride. good times, good times. i joined a gay softball league and i'm very excited to start playing again. we play on sundays which is awesome and we travel to play in tournaments all over the country. more to come on the team, very funny shit here. work has been great, very busy but i'm loving it. went out on first date with the cute i-candy guy. took him to a great new sushi restaurant called geisha house in hollywood. absolutely amazing. went back to his place and had another round of fun. can't wait for the next round. chatting with a few other gentlemen folks and keeping the options open though. i think i-candy guy is just some fun for now, we'll see. after a dry spell i'm having a great time and can't wait until the next time. and can i just say that i'd forgotten how many muscles get sore after a night of play time. i need to take my skinny ass to the gym so it's not such a big deal. got to hang out with the gang this past saturday night and had a blast. ducats and jt joined us which was a great surprise. had a lot of fun at the straight bar and although i didn't get to meet anyone that night, i was content with just hangin' with the crew and drinking boddington's. my favorite! got suckered into cooking breakfast for the crew at tony and damon's house. how the hell do you get invited to someones house for breakfast and then end up getting suckered into being the cook. well it happened. the breakfast was great, but i was hung over and not in the mood. i sucked it up though. good times, good times.
that wasn't so bad, and i got to dish pretty quickly. see ya tomorrow.
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